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Any advice people have on telling family that I have a strong sense of wanting my legs amputated?á what was your guys' family reaction? or friends?



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Hey

Don't say it.
If it is realize you will say : accident

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Want to be C6 or C7 (just to stay independant)

And in power wheelchair. Because power wheelchair can up to 7mph in 1h

Few humans do 7m in 1H

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I told my wife this January of 2020 and it took a minute for her to understand and not just think I was crazy. Now about a month later she does her research on Biid and is open with me about it as I am with her. She knows and accepts that I want to be an amputee.

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hi tay,

congratulation for your coming out!

can we talk about it with pm - mail in my profile?

many thanks



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i did it some days ago. it took some minuts to her to understand what and who i need to be ( wc part time user). Now she has to accept it, but most important i dont have to hide to her anymore, i m free to practice when i want ( now, the deal is i stay only as part time user, not at home becaus eof children). Of course she didnt expected anything, but understood how it was difficult for me to told her. I know she has it her mind, and she lets me take time to practice. Good beginning

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Wow Congratulations Im happy that you came out to tell her, it takes a lot to tell your partner let alone explain it to them, now that they they can learn with you

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Tay



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thx. indeed, i a m happy for doing it. to be honnest i m little bit proud of me ;)

At this moment i think she is progressing to accept it. she doesnt want to learn about at this moment. i will speak with her another time soon.



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congrats on coming outá á I imagine you feel great relief.á



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yes. i m very relieved by the fact to not to have to hide the time i share here, or also the time i go out to practice . Even if she is not yet supportive...and not sure she will achieve to be..unfortunatly



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